Updated: Mar 6
When a relationship comes to an end you can look back on it in many different ways.
I choose to look back on the blessings, on the lessons, and on the divine timing of it all.
No one is sent to anyone by accident. When it is all finished, you will discover it was never random.
Everything happens for a reason. You are always in the RIGHT place at the RIGHT moment.
No relationship is a waste of time. If it didn’t bring you what you want, it taught you what you don’t want.
Do not see yourself as cold and mean simply because you refuse to be taken for granted or disrespected.
Trying to control someone is futile, so don’t bother wasting your energy there. Actions speak louder than words anyways, and their actions will tell you exactly how much they respect the relationship.
If someone is in to you, you will know. If they are not, you will be confused. Period.
Red flags and gut feelings are important.
The signs you ignore in the beginning will end up being the reason you leave later. Don’t ignore them, don’t sugar coat them, and definitely DO NOT think for one second that you have any power at all to change them. You know right away who is good and bad for you.
You won’t miss a sign from the Universe. It will keep getting louder and louder until you can’t ignore it any longer. Sometimes the Universe needs to isolate you so that you can get back on track with finding your path, your passion and your souls purpose. You have to be willing to sacrifice habits, things, and situations that are standing in the way of your success.
The world is too beautiful to waste your time being angry or sad, when you could be out there enjoying what life has to offer to the fullest.
And lastly, if you are in a relationship with someone and you’re just not that into them, LET THEM GO and move tf on with your life. Don’t pretend to be someone you are not.
The end of any relationship, or friendship for that matter, is sad and often painful, but it’s only making room for a bigger and better future for you both, if you choose that for yourself.